Simple Habits That Distinguishes Personalities From Ordinary Humans

Though human beings are equal, they end up being grouped in qualities.

There are the ordinary and the superstars, the groomed and the crude, the learned and the uncultured, the smart and the timid, the kings and the slaves, the leaders and the followers etc

In all, it is these characteristic and traits that groups humans and enables them flock together like the saying ‘birds of the same feathers, flock together’.

These attitudes and behaviours are responsible for some humans having to fall below the grade. Yet those who are willing to “Belong” are often eager to learn, since no one is born perfect.

We strive for perfection by learning on a daily bases. By imbibing those things we learn, we prune the unwanted parts that came with us.

Some people have the natural gift of attracting friends effortlessly, while others have the few people who come around them withdrawing from their friendship without a clue what they did wrong. They end up becoming frustrated in life as no man ought to be an Island.

On this Blog we touch all aspects of life. We strive to understand life’s dynamics and hence bare it all. You have everything to gain if you read and also make efforts to write for us those things we should share to make the world a better place, while making all men embrace the qualities that create true equalities.

Today we are dealing with;

 Habits That Turn Others Off

And I have repeated often we try to break up the writing in order not to make it boring for you. It shall come in batches.
Please read and feel free to comment.

Urinating by the roadside

This happens especially in less developed places where toilets are hard to come by. Hey, that does not give anyone the impetus to stand at any roadside where eyes are on their buttocks to urinate. It is either such a person has no shame or pride. It flag “gutter kid”. And in case you do not know, it reduces your quality of friends because it shows that you are going nowhere in life. Ok, just imagine seeing a celebrity peeing at the roadside; hmm this will make hot frontline news any day.

Coughing and sneezing into the open air without covering
Now, it is not a crime to catch a cold. But it is a crime to spread the virus to everyone sitting around you. If you feel too sick, it is allowed to stay out of public. Coughing and sneezing out might attract sympathy but remember that is not a cure. Get treatment and don’t wheeze into someone ears. It is the most disgusting of acts. And remember if you can’t handle it; stay at home where you are free to spray your home with catarrh or cough.

Chewing gum in an official environment
Please chew all you want even if in competition with a goat, but do it in the privacy of personal environment. Oftentimes people bust bubbles right in the middle of a crowd and give back that ‘I am cooler’ stare when gazed at. It only shows where you have been raised; the gutter.

Unnecessary loudness
Some people just know how to talk. They are expert on every field under the sun and will not let any topic pass them by without having an opinion. Some will tell you that it is because they do not intend to bear grudges against others, so they have to say everything their eyes sees and their hearts perceives even if it is untrue. These kinds of people are often jeered at by everyone behind their backs. Such will feel that they are more loved and respected, but it is an illusion. It is wiser to be calm and quiet. It is a sacrifice that has its rewards at the right time.

Being manner less and careless about other people’s feelings

Some people often think they are so big that they behave anyhow they want to in public. Some say they have been liberated so they have to careless about other’s feelings. Others think they have nothing to lose, since they are nobodies so they behave as though they are insignificant. Meanwhile, if you are so big you should consider that others are looking up to you, if you are too liberated, consider that your freedom to swing hands stops where the nose of another begins and if you consider yourself insignificant to influence good things then die first. Every human has the responsibility of having good manners towards others. It is ethical even if not stated as a law.

Spitting everywhere

This habit is very offensive. You find yourself facing someone on a path and suddenly they let it out as if so you can see what their spittle or catarrh looks like.
To Be Continued