HE IS USING YOU, GIRL! 10 SIGNS

By now we know there are many gigolos, pranksters, users of women, heartbreak artists, etc around us. To identify them is as difficult as spotting a wolf among the sheep with its face down. They glide into a girl's life and she thinks "this is it!”

The trick is not to panic, but to be armed with as much info as you can. The best policy is not to be desperate for love At any point in time.  Be patient and the right guy will certainly find you. Don't they say, "good things come to those who wait"?

 The following are tips for the game;

His friends give you blank and piteous glances when he takes you along

Some stupid ones among them don't even treat you with courtesy. That might just be a sign of what he is saying behind your back.

 You do not have access to anything bearing his correct information. He takes his wallet or identity cards into the bathroom Just to guard

 against your intrusion.

He prefers to spend your money instead of his. He will demand money and gifts anyhow. He could encourage you to prostitute to keep him provided for. Be warned, he's a gigolo.

He always tells you "Broke" tales but he promises big rewards later. He never has money at the moment. He will claim that he has invested everything into some vague business deals. The same kind of man will never want to be realistic in spending. He lives high flying off others. 

He wants sex so fast he doesn't even want you to know him. He's always smooching without a care of your protests. That's the reason he's in your life anyways. And

 if you have hot pants, then your in for as long as it will last.

He always has to step away to make and receive certain calls. He won't leave his phone for you to toy with. He could flare up if you mistakenly scroll it. He doesn't trust you. He is in for business.

He's not available at very important occasions in your life. E.g. Birthdays parties or any other public events that will put him in public glare;

He won't show at such opportunities because he doesn't want to be seen. He will promise to make it up to you later. Na wash...

If he's aware you are a hard catch, he'll propose marriage early just in order to get your guard down. This is the best weapon for many guys now. It gets them the desperate ladies who they dump with flimsy excuses when ready to move on. Some even go as far as setting a wedding date which they cancel with ease. He wwill stress your life out just for the fun of it. 

He flashes your phone so you can call him back. He never has credit in his phone. And if he calls you, he's either lonely or wants to talk dirty. Some even use you to masturbate or satisfy their vainities. And wants your naked photos sent to them. Be careful, he might shamelessly blackmail you with those.

He tells you big Stories about himself that are unverifiable. He could even pretend to know people he knows you are close to, just to hhelp you relax.  If this is the case, confide in a trusted fellow and investigate him before it's too late. This kind could just pop up out from the blues and claim to have been watching you for long and you are wondering where he has been all the while. He pprobably just relocated from wrecking another woman's life. 

However there are more ways out there. Tricks emerge with different kinds of generations. So be alert and don't fall mugu for the maga.