If every human being had
the choice, they would have chosen to be born with as much beauty and good
looks as possible. Even though there are
advancements in the world on
systems, the real beauty of a person can be told by their realty appearance.While there are many advantages in comeliness, it could also become an impediment under some African customs and cultural beliefs. And so many people still hold these beliefs even if unconsciously.
The following are some
of those myths still circulating on the issue.
They are less endowed in the brain. That is, less intelligent
A beautiful woman is
believed to possess less brainpower than those who are less endowed. Whether it
is the reality remains a puzzle as most times, the woman with the brain is the
one who does not possess much to look unto outwardly.
They are proud
There is a fallacious
view that every beautiful woman is heady and proud, and does not respect
others.
They are lazy
It is also widely
believed that they are lazy and unindustrious, that they even lack the capacity
to manage their lives and businesses, when challenged with these tasks.
They make bad marriages
They are believed to be
careless about their partners and children. And that they are full of vanities
and selfish in nature. It is believed that they will always leave their husbands.
They lack good manners
They are also those who
just abhor a beautiful woman as soon as she is met because they believe she will eventually possess no manners. They feel they do not even have to court her because she has
nothing to offer in that area.
They lack energy to carry out domestic chores
It is often believed
that a beautiful woman does not possess the bones to engage in energy sapping
duties. They hold the view that her elegance and appearance has already told
her story and that she is most likely to choose activities that are less
physical.
They don't steady in marriage with one man.
It is a view that a
beautiful woman is flirty in nature because a lot of men desire her and flaunt
good things her way, hence having to fight the temptation to abide with one
man, especially before marriage. Hence, men in friendship relationship with
such women hardly trust them with fidelity.They prefer to marry men with money.
It is also believed that beautiful women always prefer men that are loaded. In this regard men who are poor in the pocket always have complex approaching fine ladies because they believe that they don’t stand any chance.
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